Post 8 - Surgery Day!

You’ve waited for it. You’ve planned for it. You might have even bought a special shirt for it. And now it’s finally here: Surgery Day.

Woo and hoo! No, wait. Boo and moo, more like. (Moo? Whatever.) 

After you’ve arrived at the hospital or surgical center, and been called back to the “special” waiting area, you’ll have a short interview with the assistant nurse. She’ll ask if you have eaten anything and you can proudly say you haven’t. (Unless you’re me. That one time.) 

If you’re having general anesthesia, you’ll meet and talk with the anesthesiologist. Be forewarned: this person is going to see your boobs. In fact, a few people will see them today. Possibly more people than you’ve ever willingly shown them to. 

Suck it up, Princess. You can handle this. 

You’ll probably be given paper slippers for your feet, maybe a cloth cap for your hair, and then led to another room. You’ll be instructed to undress from the waist up, put on a flimsy “cape” thing, and lay back on the operating table. 

After that, most of your responsibility is finished. Congrats! We’ll high five later - when you’re feeling up to it. 

In the meantime, here’s a funny story:

The first time I had surgery, I was really nervous. As soon as the anesthesiologist put my IV in, I started bawling. Quietly. To myself. It didn’t hurt - I was just nervous. 

The anesthesiologist noticed my tears. 

“Are you okay?”

I nodded. 

“Scared?”

I nodded again.

“Oh, well…" he said, at a loss for words. After a second, he brightened. "I bought a puppy home yesterday. Cutest little thing. All legs and ears.”

“Ooh, a puppy,” I said, smiling. Then BOOM. The drugs took effect, and I was out like a light. 

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Question: Have you a funny or amusing surgery story?

Post 7 - “Someone to Watch Over Me”

You will need someone to drive you to and from surgery. No, you cannot drive yourself. Go ahead, ask your doctor. They’ll just laugh at you. 

Ping a person you trust (significant other, friend, family member) to be your caretaker for the day of and day after (at least). Feel free to switch it up and have different people for different days. Variety is the spice of life and surgery. Or something like that.

The night before:

1. Shower, shave what you please, and wash your hair. You’re not going to be able to lift your arm past your shoulder for a few days.
2. Stop eating as directed. Read and reread your instructions. I’ve messed up the food rules before. Don’t do that. Don't be like me. The rules are there for your safety and comfort.
3. Plan your surgery outfit. Be sure to include:

• Comfortable pants (jammies!)
• Sandals
• Snug-fitting sports bra
• Button down shirt
• Glasses, not contacts (if applicable)

Set your alarm. Double check to make sure you set it correctly. Journal before you go to bed, just to get out any lingering fears or anxieties, and mark the occasion. You’ve done all you can to prepare. Tomorrow, trusted medical professionals will take over. You’ll be in good hands. 

Now get some sleep.

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Question:  What helps you relax the night before a major/stressful event?

Post 6 - Additional Preparation Tips

You’re going to be sitting and lying down (a lot) the day of surgery. Day after too, if you can swing it from work. So start collecting books, magazines, and hand-held games. Backlog your Netflix discs, and beef up your Instant Queue selection. 

Be sure to let your job know (in advance, especially if your work is physically active) you will not be the Queen of Lifting Things for a while after surgery. (I nearly fainted trying to hang up too many wedding gowns at one time. Those things are HEAVY. I wasn’t thinking. What a boob.)

Do a grocery trip and stockpile easy-to-make meals and healthy snacks. I say healthy because of all the sitting and watching television you’ll be doing. I say easy-to-make because odds are someone else will be making them, and you will not earn sympathy points by asking for overly complicated recipes.

Some of my favorite items:

• Couscous (flavored)
• Oatmeal (whole oats, not instant)
• Premade soup (low sodium)
• Morningstar Farms Chik’n Nuggets (microwavable, so awesome)
• Pears (self-explanatory)

If you have a pet, make sure their necessities are stocked up, and maybe treat them to a new toy. They’re going to be worried by how weird Mommy acts and smells. Hospital scents (iodine, antiseptics) linger on skin and bandages. For my cat, this meant refilling his anti-anxiety medication. (Yes, my cat has anxiety. He has tail issues.) (Don’t we all.)

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Question: What is your favorite, easy-to-prepare meal? Snack?